That is a woman's love,it stands the test of time,logic and all circumstances,and this is exactly how a woman expects a man to love her in return.Ask any female what kind of love she wants from a man,and it will sound like this''i want him to be smart,frisky,romantic,sensitive,gentle and to cap it all supportive,A man vulnerable enough to cry when he is hurting,who loves children ......''and so on,it is endless.Well,i am here to tell ladies that expecting that kind of perfect love from a man is highly unrealistic,that's right i said it.It is not feasible,because a man's love is not like a woman's love,don"t get confused am not saying a man isn"t capable of loving am just saying that a man's love is different,it is much more simple,direct,and probably quite elusive too.I tell you,if you can simply recognise how exactly a man loves you might find that the man standing in front of you,that very admirer you have been ignoring is indeed giving u his all.now,this begs the big question"how do you know when a man loves you''very simple,he would do this three things;PROFESS,PROVIDE ,AND PROTECT.
PROFESS,if your man loves you he is willing to tell the world.look here,'this is my woman,my girl,my world' in other words,you will have a title,an official one that extends beyond 'This is my friend' something more intimate,that protrays the depth of your relationship,that is because a man who holds you special and has sincere feelings for you will give you a title that clearly defines his relationship with you.This title is like a proclammation o0f his interest,a way of laying claims to you.He is putting it to notice,any man who hears it will recognize and acknowledge that you are taken.If he introduces you as his friend or by name have no doubt, that is all you are.Ladies all realise this in their hearts of hearts.But the minute he assigns a title,the moment he publicly lay claims to you,to all the people he holds dear,that is the minute you know your man is making a statement.A profession is paramount,you will know a man is serious about you,once he claims you.PROVIDE,once a man claims you,and it is reciprocated he is going to start bringing home that money,to make sure that you have all you need,that is their role-their purpose, the society has stipulated that the primary function of a man is to make sure his family is set whether dead or alive.That is the very core of manhood,to be the provider.if a man is in the position of being questioned about whether he is able to provide financially and otherwise for the ones he loves,it will greatly bruise his ego.The more a man can provide for his woman and kids the bigger and more efficient he feels.sounds quite simple,but that is the reality,a man who truly loves you would never make you ask for money for necessities,because every bit of appreciation he gets for providing in any way,boosts his ego as a man.
PROTECT-when a man truly loves you,anyone who says,does,suggests or even thinks about doing something offensive to you stands the risk of being seriously hurt.Your man will destroy anything and everything inhis path to make sure,that whoever disrespects you pays for it.that is his nature,it is the same for every male specie,no one is allowed to disrespect their familywithout them putting up a fight.that is how they have been wired.it is innate,there is no real man who will not protect what is his.protection is one of the key thinga a woman wants in her man,because it is what girls have been raised to expect,that they can count on the most important man in their lives to go to battle for them,and keep them safe from all harm,no matter the cost.Protection is not just about being ferocious,a man who truly cares about you can and will protect you in other ways,be it advice,or stepping up to perform a task,he thinks is totally unsafe for you.
In all,ladies have to stop heaping their own definition of love on men,and recognize that men love differently.As i earlier said,a man's love fits only into three categories,the three PS-profess,provide and protect.If you have got a man who has a pass in all three,then trust me he is probably the one.
