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6 ways to get a girl attracted to you
Are you approaching women and starting conversations, but it doesn’t always “click”?
This week’s dating tips will be in list form. These are some of the fastest ways to attract a girl and potentially build a relationship.
1: If it works, keep doing it
A lot of Love Systems attraction techniques are like “glitches in the matrix.” They are shortcuts to getting a woman attracted to you much faster and much more effectively than most women are used to. But if you only use one of these techniques and keep going back to that, it gets very obvious and very stale very quickly.
2. Women get attracted to different guys all the time. Most of the time, it’s temporary and fleeting. It’s not like a man’s thought process, which goes something like this:
So if you’ve ever met a woman who seemed really into you at the time, but blew you off the next day, don’t worry. This is normal and correctable.
Solidify and lock in her attraction to you, so it sustains. The best ways to do this are with Qualification (get her to chase you) and Comfort (get to know each other better so she can reverse-engineer logical reasons to justify her emotional attraction to you). Do them in that order.
Never build Comfort before Attraction.
3. Women take major cues off your shoes and your hair. Luckily, these are easy games to win. Shoes = clean and hair = fashionable, not boring.
4. Eyes-feet reflex. When you see someone interesting, walk toward her with a small smile. Right away. 98% of the time, you lose the opportunity or you creep her out by waiting.
5. Come in with an energy level at, or slightly higher than, hers. Anything else will be disconcerting to her.
6. It’s not a %#*()ing job interview. Asking her tons of questions contributes nothing to the conversation, makes her do all the work, tells her nothing about you, and reminds her of the last 500 losers who had nothing to say. Use statements and guesses wherever possible, and don’t ask two questions in a row.
7. Project your voice. Trust me, Geo Angel of gossip lions has the last word this, so I’ll defer to him here.
8. Have something to say. It’s like an old sports call-in show I used to listen to, where Jim Rome would tell his callers to “have a take, and don’t suck.” You approached her. You’re going to be responsible for 90% of the conversation for the first few minutes (and remember rule 6 if you think you’re going to get around this by asking questions).
9. Everything is ALWAYS going exactly as planned. Love Systems instructor Future had a great segment on this at the last Super Conference. Bouncer moving you? Some other guy won’t leave her alone? Bar closing early? Her friend being a cockblock? Act like you’ve seen it all before and it’s to be expected. Handle what needs to be handled, but don’t be flustered or thrown off.
10. Have fun. Emotions are contagious. If you treat it like a job or a visit to the dentist, the odds will be against you. Go places where you have fun. Go with people you have fun with. One of my old haunts had an old-school pinball machine. If I got knocked out of state, a quick beer and a game of pinball and I was right back there. Or I’d make sure to run the Secretary Opener the next time.
HOW TO GET THE RING
This is the story ,of all-too many girlfriends who are putting in some serious work,not only because they love their man,but because they have to prove they are the ONE ,the significant other.Your efforts is quite salient to everyone,how you try to prove to him that you are the ONE you painstakingly do all the things a wife should do for him;support emotionally,be loyal ,work it out in the bedroom,profess as well as act your love,ptobably live with him and have his babies.YEAH [attaining that baby mama title],get really close to his family especially his mom.In all you give him basically everything he needs,and all he wants.Well,let me break it down for you,your man has not asked you to marry him because of one or more of the following reasons;first he is married to someone else,second you are really not the one he wants,and finally you have not required him to marry you,or set a date.
To some men marriage is like eating vegetables,you know its something you should eat,but you do not really want to because,the greasy fat-filled,juicy unhealthy burgers and fries is just so much more satisfying.Men are simple creatures,and if not for women,they would be living rather easy,spend money on loud,shiny things,time watching sports and strippers and there would be no need to keep a clean house,dress smart and act all gentlemanly,or do anything other than play video games, they are happy living this way and it makes them feel young and carefree. Marriage does not. Responsibility and marriage negates that feeling.
Here is what you need to know. Men are quite clear that marriage is what women want, our sole aim. Despite your financial independence, despite all efforts you have to put in building the relationship, in the end you still firmly believe in the fairy tale, happy ever after marriage stories. Men are also clear that they can give out the things that make it seem like they are making that trip to the altar just to keep you hanging there. Trust me when I say this men do everything with a purpose and a situation when a man dates you for an extended lenghth of time, perhaps moves in with you or even gives you a ring but is still reluctant in fixing a wedding date.He is doing it to lock you down and cage you. He does not really want you and does not want anyone else to have you.Suprised right? But men could be really selfish beings. I am not saying this because I am a lady but because I see things without bias and from a critical perspective.
That special step you need to take to put all of these in the past is this.
The timeline is yours. Don't give up that woman power in you.
Tell him you love him and what you want is to be married to him. Ask him to set a date for wedding in the next couple of months, after-all you've been together for couple of years. No matter how one could look at this, I believe it is a perfect request.If he does not oblige then quit. How long are you going to wait? Ten years? Forever? The time to act is now. Call a spade a spade. Its either he is in or you are out!
